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You Hurt My Feelings

2023 · 93 min

A gentle, witty look at honesty and love in a long marriage, with sharp dialogue and relatable emotional stakes.

Directed by
Nicole Holofcener
Genres
Drama, Comedy, Romance
Starring
Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, Michaela Watkins
Overview
A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

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Directed by
Nicole Holofcener
Genres
Drama, Comedy, Romance
Starring
Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, Michaela Watkins
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Tone
  • warmstrength 2 of 3
  • melancholicstrength 1 of 3
  • satiricalstrength 1 of 3
  • earneststrength 2 of 3
Pacing
measured, 2 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention
engaged, 3 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes
  • love
  • family
  • identity
  • deception
  • parenthood
Places
  • big city
  • home
  • workplace
Era
contemporary
Audience
adult
Form
  • ensemble
Content intensity
  • Gore none
  • Language mild
  • Violence none
  • Sex mild
All scales, 0 to 10
Scales, 0 to 10
ScaleValue0 to 10
Action1
Horror0
Humour6
Realism9
Romance5
Tension4
Darkness3
Complexity5
Emotional weight6

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Genres
drama, comedy, romance
Directed by
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Written by
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Starring
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Music
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Cinematography
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Runtime
93 min
Country
United States of America
Languages
English, Spanish

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