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The Wedding Banquet

1993 · 108 min

A warm, witty, and tender comedy of errors that balances cultural expectations with personal truth, leaving a bittersweet aftertaste.

Tagline
A little deception at the reception.
Overview
A Taiwanese-American man is happily settled in New York with his American boyfriend. He plans a marriage of convenience to a Chinese woman in order to keep his parents off his back and to get the woman a green card. Chaos follows when his parents arrive in New York for the wedding.

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How it feels

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Tone
  • warmstrength 2 of 3
  • satiricalstrength 2 of 3
  • earneststrength 2 of 3
  • melancholicstrength 1 of 3
Pacing
measured, 2 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention
engaged, 3 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes
  • family
  • identity
  • love
  • deception
  • parenthood
Places
  • big city
  • home
Era
contemporary
Audience
adult
Form
  • ensemble
Content intensity
  • Gore none
  • Language mild
  • Violence none
  • Sex mild
All scales, 0 to 10
Scales, 0 to 10
ScaleValue0 to 10
Action1
Horror0
Humour6
Realism8
Romance5
Tension5
Darkness3
Complexity6
Emotional weight7

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Details

Genres
comedy, drama, romance
Directed by
Ang Lee
Written by
Neil Peng, James Schamus, Ang Lee
Starring
Gua Ah-leh, Lung Sihung, May Chin, Winston Chao Wen-hsuan, Mitchell Lichtenstein, Vanessa Yang, Dion Birney, Jeanne Kuo Chang
Music
Mader
Cinematography
Jong Lin
Runtime
108 min
Country
Taiwan, United States of America
Languages
English, Mandarin

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