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If You Are the One 3

2023 · 119 min

A gentle, wistful comedy about loneliness and artificial companionship that balances quirky humor with a quiet ache of longing.

Directed by
Feng Xiaogang
Genres
Comedy, Romance, Science fiction
Overview
In 2031, Qin retires alone on a small island, as his wife Xiaoxiao is away all year long. Fan, Qin's friend, designs an android identical to Xiaoxiao to keep Qin company.

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Directed by
Feng Xiaogang
Genres
Comedy, Romance, Science fiction
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Tone
  • melancholicstrength 2 of 3
  • whimsicalstrength 2 of 3
  • romanticstrength 2 of 3
  • satiricalstrength 1 of 3
Pacing
measured, 2 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention
engaged, 3 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes
  • loneliness
  • love
  • identity
  • technology
  • aging
Places
  • single country house
  • sea
Era
near-future
Audience
adult
Form
  • serialised
Content intensity
  • Gore none
  • Language mild
  • Violence none
  • Sex mild
All scales, 0 to 10
Scales, 0 to 10
ScaleValue0 to 10
Action2
Horror1
Humour6
Realism5
Romance7
Tension3
Darkness3
Complexity5
Emotional weight6

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If You Are the One (Collection)

  1. If You Are the OneMovie · 2008
  2. If You Are the One 2Movie · 2010
  3. If You Are the One 3Movie · 2023 This title

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Genres
comedy, romance, science fiction
Directed by
Feng Xiaogang
Written by
Feng Xiaogang
Starring
Ge You, Shu Qi, Wu Yicong, Li Chengru, Yao Chen, Fan Wei, Guan Xiaotong, Yu Shuxin
Cinematography
Rui Zhong
Runtime
119 min
Country
China
Languages
Mandarin

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