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Not Since You

2009 · 90 min

A gentle, talky reunion drama where old friends circle each other warily, airing old hurts and lingering feelings over a wedding weekend.

Directed by
Jeff Stephenson
Genres
Drama, Romance
Overview
A romantic drama about a tight-knit group of college friends who graduated from NYU the year of 9/11 and reunite years later for a weekend wedding in Georgia. Unresolved conflicts and love affairs spark again.

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Directed by
Jeff Stephenson
Genres
Drama, Romance
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Tone
  • melancholicstrength 2 of 3
  • romanticstrength 2 of 3
  • warmstrength 1 of 3
  • tensestrength 1 of 3
Pacing
measured, 2 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention
easy-watch, 2 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes
  • friendship
  • love
  • memory
  • grief
  • betrayal
Places
  • single country house
  • small town
Era
contemporary
Audience
adult
Form
  • ensemble
Content intensity
  • Gore none
  • Language mild
  • Violence none
  • Sex mild
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Scales, 0 to 10
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Action1
Horror0
Humour3
Realism8
Romance6
Tension4
Darkness4
Complexity4
Emotional weight6

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Genres
drama, romance
Directed by
Jeff Stephenson
Written by
Brent Laffoon, Jane Kelly Kosek, Jeff Stephenson
Starring
Desmond Harrington, Kathleen Robertson, Jon Abrahams, Sunny Mabrey, Will Estes, Elden Henson, Sara Rue, Christian Kane
Music
Christopher Brady
Cinematography
Helge Gerull
Runtime
90 min
Country
United States of America
Languages
English, Czech

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