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All of Us Strangers

2023 · 105 min

A haunting, tender plunge into grief and queer intimacy that blurs memory and reality, leaving you quietly devastated and strangely hopeful.

Directed by: Andrew Haigh
Genres: Romance, Drama, Fantasy
Starring: Andrew Scott, Paul Mescal, Carter John Grout

Tagline: All of us hurt. All of us hope. All of us love.
Overview: One night in his near-empty tower block in contemporary London, Adam has a chance encounter with a mysterious neighbor, which punctures the rhythm of his everyday life.

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Directed by: Andrew Haigh
Genres: Romance, Drama, Fantasy
Starring: Andrew Scott, Paul Mescal, Carter John Grout

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Tone: melancholicstrength 3 of 3
romanticstrength 2 of 3
eeriestrength 2 of 3
warmstrength 2 of 3
Pacing: slow-burn, 1 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention: demanding, 4 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes: grief
loneliness
love
memory
identity
Places: big city
home
suburbs
Era: contemporary
Audience: adult
Form: nonlinear
twist ending
Content intensity: Gore mild
Language strong
Violence mild
Sex strong

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Action	1
Horror	3
Humour	2
Realism	5
Romance	7
Tension	5
Darkness	7
Complexity	7
Emotional weight	9

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Genres: romance, drama, fantasy
Directed by: Andrew Haigh
Written by: Andrew Haigh
Starring: Andrew Scott, Paul Mescal, Carter John Grout, Jamie Bell, Claire Foy, Ami Tredrea, Sean Tizzard
Music: Emilie Levienaise-Farrouch
Cinematography: Jamie D. Ramsay
Runtime: 105 min
Country: United Kingdom, United States of America
Languages: English

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