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How to Deal

2003 · 99 min

A gentle, earnest teen drama that balances heartbreak and humor, feeling like a warm, slightly messy coming-of-age story.

Directed by: Clare Kilner
Genres: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Starring: Mandy Moore, Trent Ford, Allison Janney

Tagline: Rule #1: There are no rules.
Overview: For teenager Halley, love seems like an alien concept. Her mother is divorcing her father, who is dating a younger woman Halley can't stand. Her sister is about to get married and doesn't realize that her fiancé is not the man of her dreams. And her best friend has fallen madly in love for the first time, leaving Halley to feel even more alone. But, when she meets edgy Macon, she learns what love is really all about.

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Directed by: Clare Kilner
Genres: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Starring: Mandy Moore, Trent Ford, Allison Janney

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Tone: melancholicstrength 2 of 3
warmstrength 2 of 3
earneststrength 2 of 3
lightstrength 1 of 3
Pacing: measured, 2 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention: easy-watch, 2 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes: coming-of-age
love
family
grief
friendship
Places: small town
school
home
Era: contemporary
Audience: teen
Form: None
Content intensity: Gore none
Language mild
Violence mild
Sex mild

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Scale	Value	0 to 10
Action	2
Horror	0
Humour	5
Realism	7
Romance	6
Tension	3
Darkness	3
Complexity	3
Emotional weight	5

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