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Where I Grow Old

2017 · 99 min

A quiet, drifting hangout in an unglamorous city, watching two women circle each other and slowly belong.

Directed by
Marília Rocha
Genres
Drama
Starring
Elizabete Francisca, Francisca Manuel, Paulo Nazareth
Overview
Two young Portuguese women try to put down roots in Brazil. Teresa is newly arrived; Francisca has been there a while. This sure-footed, loving portrait of two counterparts, attracting and repelling, is also an ode to Belo Horizonte: a city with no tourist attractions, but bags of atmosphere and lust for life.

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Directed by
Marília Rocha
Genres
Drama
Starring
Elizabete Francisca, Francisca Manuel, Paulo Nazareth
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How it feels

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Tone
  • melancholicstrength 2 of 3
  • warmstrength 2 of 3
  • earneststrength 1 of 3
Pacing
slow-burn, 1 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention
engaged, 3 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes
  • identity
  • friendship
  • isolation
  • immigration
  • loneliness
Places
  • big city
Era
contemporary
Audience
adult
Form
None
Content intensity
  • Gore none
  • Language mild
  • Violence none
  • Sex mild
All scales, 0 to 10
Scales, 0 to 10
ScaleValue0 to 10
Action1
Horror0
Humour3
Realism8
Romance3
Tension3
Darkness3
Complexity6
Emotional weight6

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Details

Genres
drama
Directed by
Marília Rocha
Written by
Marília Rocha, João Dumans, Thais Fujinaga
Starring
Elizabete Francisca, Francisca Manuel, Paulo Nazareth, Wanderson dos Santos, Jonnata Doll
Cinematography
Ivo Lopes Araújo
Runtime
99 min
Country
Brazil, Portugal
Languages
Portuguese

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