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I'm the Same, I'm an Other

2013 · 115 min

A quiet, uneasy immersion into shared grief, where closeness and secrecy blur, leaving a lingering sense of fragile dependence.

Directed by
Caroline Strubbe
Genres
Drama
Overview
A man in his 30s is on the run with a nine-year-old girl. As they take a ferry to the United Kingdom, traces of a common past come to light — a past filled with loss and sorrow. Fleeing in secret, they end up hiding in a small apartment on the seafront, where they live day-to-day, exploring each other’s emotional territories. Mourning will bind them, but is this alliance of dependence appropriate for them and for the outside world?
How it feels
Melancholic, tense, dark and earnest. Slow-burning and demanding.
About
Grief, isolation, family, trauma
Content
Mild violence, sexual content and language. No gore.
Note
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Directed by
Caroline Strubbe
Genres
Drama
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How it feels

Written by AI. It can be wrong.

Full breakdown
Tone
Pacing
slow-burn, 1 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention
demanding, 4 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Era
contemporary
Audience
adult
Form
None
Content intensity
  • Gore none
  • Language mild
  • Violence mild
  • Sex mild
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Scales, 0 to 10
ScaleValue0 to 10
Action2
Horror1
Humour1
Realism8
Romance1
Tension6
Darkness7
Complexity7
Emotional weight8

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Details

Genres
drama
Directed by
Caroline Strubbe
Written by
Caroline Strubbe
Starring
Zoltán Miklós Hajdu, Kimke Desart
Music
Albert Márkos
Cinematography
David Williamson
Runtime
115 min
Country
Belgium
Languages
Dutch, English, Hungarian

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