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I Never Sang for My Father

1970 · 92 min

A quietly devastating character study of family obligation, carried by raw performances and a slow accumulation of regret.

Directed by: Gilbert Cates
Genres: Drama
Starring: Gene Hackman, Melvyn Douglas, Dorothy Stickney

Tagline: A motion picture the whole world has taken to its heart.
Overview: A man living in the towering shadow of his aging father finds it difficult to start a new chapter in his life by marrying his girlfriend and moving to California.

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Directed by: Gilbert Cates
Genres: Drama
Starring: Gene Hackman, Melvyn Douglas, Dorothy Stickney

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Tone: melancholicstrength 3 of 3
tensestrength 2 of 3
earneststrength 2 of 3
darkstrength 1 of 3
Pacing: slow-burn, 1 of 4, from slow-burn to relentless
Attention: engaged, 3 of 4, from background-friendly to demanding
Themes: family
parenthood
guilt
aging
identity
Places: home
hospital
suburbs
Era: contemporary
Audience: adult
Form: None
Content intensity: Gore none
Language mild
Violence none
Sex mild

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Action	1
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Humour	2
Realism	9
Romance	3
Tension	6
Darkness	6
Complexity	6
Emotional weight	9

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Genres: drama
Directed by: Gilbert Cates
Written by: Robert Anderson
Starring: Gene Hackman, Melvyn Douglas, Dorothy Stickney, Estelle Parsons, Elizabeth Hubbard, Lovelady Powell, Daniel Keyes, Conrad Bain
Music: Barry Mann, Al Gorgoni
Cinematography: Morris Hartzband, George Stoetzel
Runtime: 92 min
Country: United States of America
Languages: English

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